Two men stood at the bar discussing the attractiveness of a young woman who was sitting with a girlfriend about 20 feet away. Finally, after about 15 minutes, the object of their attention walked up to the bartender and requested a martini. The shy one had called “dibs” but said nothing as they stood nearly two feet apart. Finally, after a painfully silent minute and a half, she accepted her drink and walked back to her table.
1. Do not let anyone make you feel like you don’t have worth.
Regardless of where you come from, what your background is, or what decisions you have made in the past, you have worth. You deserve to be happy and you deserve to be treated with dignity. There are a lot of good people out there, but there are also a lot of people out there who are going to try to bring you down. They don’t want you to succeed and they don’t want you to be happy, unless you are less successful and less happy than them. Never allow these people to have a moment of your time. Instead, surround yourself with the people who are going to build you up, add goodness to your life, and want nothing but the best for you.
Let’s talk about wedding gifts. Specifically: Is there any way to gracefully request money for practicalities, rather than goblets?
One engaged woman wrote to the New York Times’ Social Q’s, asking for help. Her cousins have married in one elaborate ceremony after another—”ostentatious, wasteful affairs, in my opinion”—and she’s the last in line. But she has absolutely zero interest in blowing her hard-earned dough on a wedding and by the way, she’d prefer cash in lieu of packages:
A Nigerian Custom officer named Mr Nwaeze who heads the Customs unit at Mosafejo Aradagun, has been accused of allegedly attacking a woman identified as Ms Tope Fadipe with acid after an argument over money.
Sahara Reporters reports that Ms Fadipe, who served as a salesgirl at a local food business run by Mr Nwanze’s family for 3 years, was attacked by an angry Nwaeze on Friday May 9th, after she argued with him when he accused of her of not remitting N50,000 into the business account.
After the acid attack, the matter was reported at the Badagry Police Station, and Mr. Nwaeze had boasted that no one could arrest him. On Saturday, the 10th of May, one day after the incident, Mr. Nwaeze was said to have appeared at the Police Station, and had returned shortly afterwards to show he is above arrest. Continue…
Currently, residents say, Nwaeze belched his car radio speakers loudly whenever driving in the street, with a carriage posting to show that he is above impunity since the May 9th incident.
A resident in the street told SaharaReporters that it is part of Mr. Nwaeze’s forte, to “intimidate and oppress people with impunity,” due to his status as a Customs Officer.
The victim, Tope Fadipe, is currently being treated for her severe burns at the Badagry General Hospital. Witnesses and doctors say her condition is worsening since that attac k.
Saharareporters learned through a medical source that, Nwaeze has now tried to secretly collect Ms. Tope from the hospital, without giving off any hint what he wants to do with her.
Arguments are common in every relationship and apologies are usually expected at the end if the issues in contention must be resolved. Some relationship experts posit that apologies are solely to be made by the female gender, while others think differently.
An argument broke out last week at a small gathering when a man said over his dead body would he kneel and apologise to his wife or girlfriend over anything, not minding what the bone of contention is. “Why should I apologise to a woman, when God in his mercy has made the Continue reading Arguments: Should women always be the ones to apologise?→
20 year old Isaac Anya Ojiabo Jr. has been charged with first-degree murder in the death of his mother, Joy Ojiabo, who was found beaten and st@bbed to death at their million dollar home in Forest Hill, Maryland.
When police arrived at the home of 51 year old Joy Ojiabo around 5pm on Wednesday Jan. 29th, they found her suffering from multiple injuries, “to include a large, wooden handled knife
protruding from her chest.”. She was
pronounced dead 20 minutes later. Continue reading Boy Stabs mother to death in Marland→
A recent study found that one in five women suffers from vaginal dryness, but 90 percent don’t treat it (via The Daily Mail). A variety of factors can cause dryness, and it can lead to general irritation, pain during sex and, in some cases, depression. Almost 20 percent of the women interviewed noted that they are not having sex because they’re embarrassed or afraid, and more than a third of women reported it affected their relationships. Continue reading 1 in 5 women suffer Vaginal Dryness→
Woman C: Less than 4? I don’t ever remember not doing it (once I realized what it was). My neighbors, who were sisters, all 1-3 years older than me, told me about it. This is a super weird concept for me now that I’m an adult, but it was really innocent since there was no comprehension or apprehension. Just hey, check out this cool thing I discovered, like it was a new game. Continue reading Female Masturbation→